Women frame their requests in a less assertive way because that is how we are taught to enter the world: don’t be too aggressive, don’t be arrogant, don’t bother people, don’t make people upset, don’t step on anyone’s toes, don’t don’t don’t. But even though women tend to undersell themselves, that doesn’t mean that they are incapable of using commanding rhetoric when the occasion calls for it or that they will automatically compromise their ideals in order to avoid conflict or confrontation.
In "The Language of the Brag", a poem that might serve as an early manifesto, she writes of the physical act of giving birth as some kind of Whitmanesque celebration of the self and the written word. It's an early indication, perhaps, of the fascinating, and complicated, relationship in Olds's work between life and art. Olds exhibits her pride in her body in the next stanza as she states, “I have wanted some epic use for my excellent body, some heroism, some American achievement… I have stood by the sandlot and watched the boys play.” She wants to do something that even men would be astonished by. She examines the achievement of giving birth as if to say “ ha! Men try this because I bet you can’t!” Olds mentions Walt Whitman in last stanza, stating, “I have done what you wanted to do, Walt Whitman, I have done this thing, I and the other women this exceptional act with the exceptional heroic body,” because men poets had the vision of speaking of themselves in terms of
She shows empowerment through the woman’s body by speaking on the miracle of giving life.
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